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SeekingFantasy provides fantasy dating service in (Alaska, United States). A sexual fantasy, also called an erotic fantasy, is a fantasy or pattern of thoughts with the effect of creating or enhancing sexual feelings; in short, it is "almost any mental imagery that is sexually arousing or erotic to [an] individual". A fantasy can be a long, drawn-out story or a quick mental flash of sexual imagery; its purpose can range from sexual motivations, such as sexual arousal and reaching orgasm, to simply passing time or helping a person fall asleep. As a nearly universal phenomenon, sexual fantasy is an important study topic. A fantasy may be a positive or negative experience, or even both. It can reflect past experience and influence future sexual encounters. A person may not wish to enact a sexual fantasy in real life, and since the process is entirely imaginary, they are not limited to acceptable or practical fantasies, which can provide information on the psychological processes behind sexual behavior. Fantasies are theorized to play an important role in sexual offenses; similarly, a lack of fantasy, or guilt surrounding fantasy, may contribute to sexual dysfunction. The content and goal of a sexual fantasy vary greatly between individuals and are subject to personal desires. These fantasies range from the mundane to the bizarre, and a person may have zero to full desire to carry out an imagined act; people often use fantasy to help plan out future sexual encounters. Fantasies occur in all individuals and at any time of the day, although it has been suggested that fantasies are more common among frequent daydreamers. Fantasies are frequently used to escape real-life sexual restraints and to imagine dangerous or illegal scenarios, such as rape, castration, or kidnapping. They allow people to imagine themselves in roles they do not normally have, such as power, innocence, and guilt. Fantasies present enormous influence over sexual behavior (hence the phrase "the brain is the largest sex organ"), and can be the sole cause of an orgasm. While there are several common themes in fantasies, any object or act can be eroticized. Sexual fantasy is frequent during masturbation, although this is more true for men than for women. During sexual contact, some people use their fantasies to "turn off" undesirable aspects of an act. For example, a woman receiving cunnilingus may shut out thoughts about her body's odors or fluids in order to fantasize about her physical or emotional pleasure. Conversely, a person may use fantasy to focus and maintain arousal, such as a man receiving fellatio ignoring a distraction. Men tend to be aware of only parts of themselves during sex — they are more likely to focus on the physical stimulation of one area, and as such, do not see themselves as a "whole.";

Adult dating is an adventure, and SeekingFantasy features the most adult singles in (Alaska, United States) than most other dating websites. No matter what adventure you seek, be it a sex party, threesome, tying up your lover for an evening of erotic power, or submission, or pretending to be a school girl, or a doctor, being seduced by a rock star, think of sexual fantasy as the cornerstone of your individual sexual expression. An erotic fantasy is any thought, idea, image, or scenario that interests you sexually. ;

SeekingFantasy is also a Fetish dating website catering to members from (Alaska, United States). Sexual fetishism, or erotic fetishism, is the sexual arousal brought on by any object, situation or body part not conventionally viewed as being sexual in nature. Sexual fetishism may be regarded, e.g. in psychiatric medicine, as a disorder of sexual preference or as an enhancing element to a relationship. The sexual acts involving fetishes are characteristically depersonalized and objectified, even when they involve a partner.[1] Body parts may also be the subject of sexual fetishes (also known as partialism) in which the body part preferred by the fetishist takes a sexual precedence over the owner.Fantasies may also be used as a part of sex therapy. They can enhance insufficiently exciting sexual acts to promote higher levels of sexual arousal and release. A 1986 study that looked at married women indicated that sexual fantasies helped them achieve arousal and orgasm. As a part of therapy, an orgasmic women are commonly encouraged to use fantasy and masturbation. A 5-tier classification of sexual fetishism has been proposed: Desirers, Cravers, Moderate Level Fetishists, High Level Fetishists, and Fetishistic murderers. However, the types of fetishes include the following: Acomoclitic — Shaved and completely hairless genitals are a turn-on; Acrotomophilia – a person is sexually aroused by the sight of an amputation usually of a whole arm or leg; Agoraphilia —Gettin' it on out in public is hot; Alphmegamia —Bring on the older, seasoned men; Altocalciphilia —High heels make this person horny; Antholagnia —The scent of a flower brings about that special tingly feeling; Asthenolagnia —When this person's partner is mamby-pamby; Cunnilalia —Just talking about female genitalia gives this person the proverbial or actual woody; Cunnilingus —Tonguing vulva is titillating; Doraphilia —The feeling of fur or skin is sensual and erotic; Graophilia —Older females are hotties, and The Graduate is probably a favorite movie; Gymnophilia —Turned on by nudity. ; Gynonudomania —If the thought of ripping clothes off of other people fills you with lust. Hirsutophilia —Aroused by armpit hair; Macrogenitalism —Are you aroused by large genitals?; Medolalia —This person could hang with a cunnilalist since this person is aroused by talking about everything phallus; Miscegenation —When two people of different races get it on, this person wants to get it on; Omolagnia —Aroused by nudity; Phallophilia —This person only wants penises of unusual size, namely gargantuan; Pubephilia —Don't ever shave for this person, because pubic hair is where it's at; Tripsolagnia —A trip to the hairdresser is heaven, especially getting their hair managed or shampooed; Tripsophilia —Sensual massage is the only kind of massage, baby. Chremastistophilia —This person gets off on the idea of being robbed; Coulrophilia —This person wants a clown to entertain their pants off while playing with that long, red balloon; Electrophilia —Electricity is hot. Some say even shocking; Eproctophilia —This person is horny whenever farting is involved; Exhibitionism —This is someone who enjoys surprising others by exposing their naughty bits. I'm thinking an omolagnian would probably get along really well with this person; Fisting —This person is aroused by either being the receiver or giver of a hand, fist, or forearm into the rectum or vagina; Gerontophilia —This is an attraction to the old and enfeebled; Gynemimetophilia —The thought of someone who was born a man, but now stands corseted, female impersonator or a male to female transsexual; Harpaxophilia —There should be a dot-com site where chremastistophilians and harpaxophilians can hook up, because harpaxophilians are turned on by burglary; Hebephilia —Teenagers make this person randy; Hierophilia —This person gets off on sacred objects such as crosses; Iatronudia -- This person loves exposing him or herself to a physician; Kleptophilia —The only difference between this person and someone giving themselves the five-finger discount is that this person gets horny when they steal; Lactaphilia —Mammaries full of milk don't make just babies happy; Maieusiophilia —Pregnant women make this person hot under the collar; Martymachlia —Aroused by having others watch during Nasophilia —This person gets mentally erect about their partner's nose; Nymphomania/Satyriasis —Even though these folks are aroused by the uncontrollable desire of woman/men for sex; Ochlophilia —If you get turned on by being in a crowd; Oculophilia —It's said that the eyes are the window to the soul. An oculophiliac thinks they are the viagra of the face; Oculolinctus —Aroused by licking their partner's eyeball. I don't think I need to add anything here; Odaxelagnia —Bite me; Ozolagnia —turned on by powerful scents; Parthenophilia —These people have a desire to deflower virgins; Phygephilia —Turned on by being a fugitive; Podophilia —This fairly common fetish finds folks getting hot and bothered about feet; Retifism —Turned on by shoes. Would this be also known as Imeldaism; Spectrophilia —These people get aroused by either coitus with spirits or from images in mirrors; Thesauromania —While the name makes me envision someone with an insatiable Rand McNally habit, it really means people who are turned on by collecting women's clothing and stuff; Thlipsosis —Ow! Oooooooo. Oh! Mmmmmmmmm. Turned on by pinching; Transvestitism —This person has a secret bigger than Victoria's, because they feel absolutely divine cross-dressing; Voyeurism —They like to watch. 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SeekingFantasy features members from (Alaska, United States) seeking threesomes. A threesome is a form of group sex involving three people of any gender combination. The level of sexual activity among the three members may vary greatly. Some threesomes may involve one who has a voyeur role, sometimes the invited member is there for enhancing the experience which does not involve having intercourse with the couple role (this is sometimes referred to as soft-swinging); other threesomes may involve some same sex contact, while others may actively involve all three members[1]. Some people have made the argument that if the act does not involve sexual involvement between all three members that it is not a threesome at all and could be more accurately called a double team. This would be when two members of the threesome engage with one person but not actually with each other. One activity in this form of group sex is when sexual intercourse and/or anal sex are performed on the woman/man by two men in a double penetration. Another form of threesome is when a woman/man is given either intercourse and/or anal sex by one man (doggie style), while she/he gives the second man oral sex. Yet another example is a man and woman perform vaginal sex (from behind or reverse cowgirl), while a third person performs oral sex on the woman (clitoris) and/or on the man (testicles.) Anecdotal evidence suggests that people have a wide range of reactions to being involved in a group sex situation The term threesome should not be confused with the term ménage à trois, although both activities involve sex among three people. Triad: It is most commonly used to describe a love relationship between three people where it can either take the form of a triangle (in which all three people have a love relationship with the other two) or a "V" (in which two people independently have a love relationship with a third). Typically this type of relationship is a form of an open relationship in which the couple seeks to incorporate a third person equally into their relationship. It is a kind of polyamorous relationship.;

SeekingFantasy features adults seeking S&M in (Alaska, United States). S&M which stands for Sadomasochism is a form of sexual roleplaying. Sadism refers to gratification in the infliction of pain or humiliation upon another person. Masochism refers to gratification from receiving the same. Often interrelated, the practices are collectively known as sadomasochism as well as S&M or SM. These terms usually refer to consensual practices within the BDSM community. BDSM is a convoluted shorthand for the three main subdivisions of the culture: B&D (bondage and discipline), D/s (dominance and submission) and S&M (sadism and masochism). It is likely that this usage of the letters is actually a backronym. Still, it signals the fact that a number of people hold powerplay dear, and engage in it over the board in intimate settings, be they explicitly sexual or not. Often all of the activities that are implied in the term come together, and become mixed in a person's life. At the purest, sadists desire to inflict pain. Masochists want to receive pain. The act might be sexual for both, either, or neither. Similarly, a dominant desires to exercise emotional or relational control over another. A submissive wants to feel such control. Again, there might be a sexual element, or there might not. Such an element need not be mutual. Bondage and discipline is then perhaps the hardest of the three to define. It usually involves either physical or psychological restraint, formalized service and/or punishment, and a strict adherence to a preset storyline. Typically the story would go along the lines of an English teacher caning a pupil, in the highly formalized way they used to. Such rituals are then probably more widespread in cultures which expose their citizens to formalized physical restraint, or punishment. The term BDSM describes the activities between consenting partners that contain sadistic and masochistic elements. Many behaviors such as erotic spanking, tickling and love-bites that many people think of only as "rough" sex also contain elements of sado-masochism. Note the issue of legal consent may not be accepted as a defense to criminal charges in some jurisdictions, and very few jurisdictions will permit consent as a defense to serious bodily injury. In certain extreme cases, sadism and masochism can include fantasies, sexual urges or behavior that cause significant distress or impairment in social, occupational, or other important areas of functioning, to the point that they can be considered part of a mental disorder. However, this is an uncommon case, and psychiatrists are now moving towards regarding sadism and masochism not as disorders in and of themselves, but only as disorders when associated with other problems such as a personality disorder. "Sadism" and "masochism", in the context of consensual sexual activities, are not strictly accurate terms, at least by the psychological definitions. "Sadism" in absolute terms refers to someone whose pleasure in causing pain does not depend on the consent of the "victim". Indeed, a lack of consent may be a requisite part of the experience for a true sadist. Similarly, the masochist in consensual BDSM is someone who enjoys sexual fantasies or urges for being beaten, humiliated, bound, tortured, or otherwise made to suffer, either as an enhancement to or a substitute for sexual pleasure, usually according to a certain scripted and mutually agreed upon "scene". These "masochists" do not usually enjoy pain in other scenarios, such as accidental injury, medical procedures, and so on. Similarly, the exchange of power in S&M may not be along the expected lines. While it might be assumed that the "top"—the person who gives the sensation or causes the humiliation—is the one with the power, the actual power may lie with the "bottom", who typically creates the script, or at least sets the boundaries, by which the S&M practitioners play. Further, often times the pleasure that the "top" gains from inflicting the pain, humiliation, etc. is contingent upon the "bottom" reacting in a way that the "top" desires or expects. Ernulf and Innala (1995) observed discussions among individuals with such interests, one of whom described the goal of hyperdominants.;

SeekingFantasy is also an adult dating website for swingers in (Alaska, United States). Swinging, sometimes referred to as the swinging lifestyle, is "non-monogamous sexual activity, treated much like any other social activity, that can be experienced as a couple." The phenomenon of swinging (or at least its wider discussion and practice) may be seen as part of the sexual revolution of recent decades, which occurred after the upsurge in sexual activity made possible by the prevalence of safer sex practices during the same period. Swinging has been called wife swapping in the past, but this term has been criticized as androcentric (taking a male-oriented point of view) and inaccurately describing the full range of sexual activities in which swingers may take part. Swinging activities may include (but are not limited to): Soft swinging: having sexual intercourse with a partner while two or more other people perform sex acts in the immediate vicinity. Soft swap: having oral sex with someone other than one's partner. Often a type of swinging that new couples choose before eventually trying full swap, although many couples stay "soft swap" for personal or safety related reasons. Full swap: having penetrative sex with someone other than one's partner. Although this is the commonly understood definition of swinging, it is not necessarily the most common type. Group sex: An all-inclusive term for activities involving multiple partners in the same vicinity. Typically, swinging activities occur when a married or otherwise committed couple engages in sexual activity with another couple, multiple couples, or a single individual. These acts can occur in the same room (often called same room swinging) though different or separate room swinging does occur. On these occasions, swingers will often refer to sex as play and sex partners as playmates. Occasionally, one party of a couple will not be interested in joining the swinging lifestyle. This party is typically referred to as the "hold-out" while the other party is referred to as the "desirous party". Thus, the "desirous party" is the one party of a swinging couple who seeks to be in the lifestyle as opposed to the other party who does not.;

SeekingFantasy is the largest adult sex game website, featuring more members in (Alaska, United States) looking for like-minded adults who are looking to play sex games. Sex games are for adventurous lovers who are willing to try something new on a dare, like smearing each other with cream, making private dirty movies, sharing live webcams, or taking naughty photos together. There are many sex games adults play. When we get turn on, our minds become a little devious. We take seduction and arousal as far as it can go with sex games, making our sexual encounter unforgettable. Tying hands together, treasure hunt, redeeming sex coupons, daring each other, show and tell, hide and seek sex game, and sex mannequin are all examples of sex games. Other examples of sex games include: Messy Fun -- Consider getting the book Messy Girls by Charles Gatewood. Aphrodisiac Seductions – Consider getting the book Intercourses: An Aphrodisiac Cookbook by Martha Hopkins and Randall Lockridge, and Temptations: Igniting the Pleasure and Power of Aphrodisiacs by Ellen and Michael Albertson. Make your own porn – consider Erotic Home Videos: Create Your Own Adult Films by Anna Span, or The Little Digital Video Book, by Michael Rubin. Your Erotic Photo Shoot – consider The Little Digital Camera Book, by Cynthia Baron and Daniel Peck, or Photography for Perverts, by Charles Gatewood. Webcams and Digital Images – consider The Little Web Cam Book, by Elisabeth Parker.;